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Six Motivational Tools to Jumpstart Your Work Year
Dear Friends, Fall, and the beginning of the work/school year, is probably my favorite time of year. So much excitement and potential. As usual, my beginning-of-fall post outlines resources I offer that can help you get off to a running start. Please see below. Also, I’m well along the way in my new book, How…
Read MoreIf No One Falls Over, We’re Having a Great Class!
One of my recent newsletters discussed a misguided essay (and now, regrettably, book) by a prominent philosophy professor on his notion of “constructive procrastination. I’m happy now to refer you to this essay, I’m With Stupid, by a writer who is not, to my knowledge, a prominent professor, but who nevertheless has figured out a…
Read MoreNo Such Thing as “Good Procrastination”
The Wall Street Journal recently published an article extolling the benefits of what the author calls “structured procrastination.” In “How to Be a Better Procrastinator” John Perry, an emeritus professor of philosophy at Stanford University, says: “But are procrastinators truly unproductive? In most cases, the exact opposite is true. They are people who not only…
Read MoreAll Your Work Should Be Sand Castles
The wonderful and much-missed writer and writing teacher John Gardner wrote in On Becoming A Novelist: “If children can build sand castles without getting sand-castle block, and if ministers can pray over the sick without getting holiness block, the writer who enjoys his work and takes measured pride in it should never be troubled by…
Read MoreThe True Cost of “Time Poverty” (perhaps the most important article you’ll read this year!)
This week, Beth Teitell at the Boston Globe wrote an outstanding article summarizing a study that showed vividly how a lifestyle grounded in consumerism and time poverty makes people disconnected and miserable. Her article is here and below is my letter to the editor summarizing my viewpoints on the topics raised. Relatedly, please check out…
Read MoreMy Psychology Today Blog Post on Helping Kids Deal With Video Game Addiction
I’m really proud of it – it suggests parents treat obsessive video game playing and similar nonproductive activities as a form of procrastination. You’ll find it here. Excerpt: “If your kid is receptive, have a nonjudgmental conversation about what procrastination is, and the reasons people do it, and why he specifically might be doing it.…
Read MoreIn Which I Advise a Young Baby
My friend, free software activist, Ciaran McHale and his wife, Bianca, recently had a baby–the gorgeous Toby. And they did something completely cool, which was to ask friends concerned with social justice to write letters to Toby, which they would publish in a book. The book Letters to Toby is out, and you can read…
Read MoreIs Perfectionism Keeping You From Getting Fit?
Perfectionism and Exercise Fascinating New York Times blog post on exercising. Turns out perfectionism is a barrier to many people’s getting in shape. Specifically: “One of the biggest misconceptions is that exercise has to be hard, that exercise means marathon running or riding your bike for three hours or doing something really strenuous.” That’s textbook…
Read MoreNew “How to” Page: How to Avoid Burnout by Frequently Rewarding Yourself
A friend/activist recently wrote to me about the difficulties she has building “rewards” (fun, pleasure, validation, gratification, treats, etc.) into her life. She mentioned that a day trip that was supposed to be a big reward for her last month fizzled, and that made her very demoralized. This is a crucial topic because without rewards…
Read MorePeople Remember Negative Events More Than Positive Ones
Interesting New York Times article on how we tend to remember rejections and criticism much longer than praise. Absolutely true! Most underproductivity is catalyzed by toxic rejections that the person retains years, and even decades, later. Excerpts: “The human brain handles negative and positive input differently, psychologists say, which is why memories of unpleasant experiences…
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